Why I’m a Huge Fan of the First Look (and why you might be, too)

I hear it often from my couples about how the biggest surprise on their wedding day is just how fast everything flies by.

One minute, you’re in a quiet, sunlit room as your mom laces up your wedding dress, and the next thing you know, you’re partying on the dance floor with your BFFs breathless, happy, and utterly in awe of how beautifully your wedding day unfolded.

If you haven’t heard of the phrase before, a First Look is a planned moment where you and your partner see each other for the first time before the ceremony starts.

Of course, a First Look is entirely optional. There’s no right or wrong way to do it; it’s all about creating a space that feels like you.

If you prefer keeping to a traditional aisle reveal and not see each other before the ceremony, I fully support you! But if you’re intrigued by the idea of a First Look, I’ll share a few reasons why I love suggesting it as a way to make the rest of the wedding day feel a bit more intentional and unhurried.

A little pocket of peace before the whirlwind

A First Look is really just a chance to take a deep breath and ground yourselves in each other before the public celebrations begin. It’s about those quiet, sincere moments that happen when nobody else is watching.

I’ve seen so many couples use this time to read private letters or share their vows away from the pressure of a crowd. It doesn't take away from the anticipation of the ceremony; if anything, it gives you more time together to actually soak in the fact that you’re getting married.

A private exchange with just the two of you together where you can exchange private love notes or just appreciate the quiet of being alone together. A rare moment that may not happen again during the wedding day as you’ll soon be surrounded with loved ones and their congratulatory wishes.

Wedding Day Portraits while you're feeling and looking your best

There is a practical side to this, too, that helps create those "heirloom" portraits you'll keep forever. When we do a First Look, we can handle those intentional, romantic portraits while your hair and makeup are still fresh and you’re feeling that peak "just-about-to-get-married" excitement. It ensures the light is working in our favor and that we aren't rushing to beat the sunset or the reception start time.

Actually enjoying your cocktail hour

As an Edmonton Wedding and Family Photographer, I’m a big believer in an organized timeline that lets you actually be a guest at your own party.

Knocking out the couple’s portraits and wedding party photos right after the first look means you can head straight from your ceremony to your cocktail hour. You get to be right there with your favorite people, celebratory drink in hand, feeling totally relaxed and prepared for the rest of the night. Even just carving out 10 or 15 minutes before the ceremony to connect in a private space makes the whole evening feel so much more effortless.

Let’s find what works for you

Whether you go traditional or opt for a first look, my goal is to support your vision and help you stay in the moment.

If you’re not sure which approach fits your day best, let’s connect and chat about how we can make space for these quiet moments in your wedding day timeline. Send me a note through my website; I’d love to hear what you’re dreaming up!